Bi-sexuality
Bi-sexual people are attracted to both genders whether it be Emotionally, Physically , Sexual attraction , and/or relationships. Bi-sexuality isn't necessarily dedicated to one gender. Just like all the other sexuality’s people can be monogamous, abstinent , or may have many sexual partners. You may have on long lasting relationship for years, or just be in relationships with one gender but still consider themselves bi-sexual.
Queer/Questioning
The q in LGBT can stand for either queer or questioning. Questioning means that a person is unsure of their Sexual Orientation. Queer .is a category where you don't have to identify with one of the categories. It doesn't necessary have to deal with sexual orientation queer is a term for the outcasts those who feel they don't take part in society.
Protect Yourself
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Woman and woman- make a barrier (dental dams, latex gloves , or plastic wrap) to lower the risk of HIV/STI infections
Woman and Man- Always use a condom unless you're increasing your chances of getting pregnant. Always in every act of Sexual intercourse use the condom. Man and Man- Always use a condom and lots of lubricant even if you're doing oral intercourse trans or gender-queer safe -They both can experience HIV, STD s, or pregnancy use a condom or dental dams at every part of sexual intercourse |
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You are probably waiting for my dimwit thoughts on the topic of bi-sexuality. You see I know a first hand expert who has lived with bi-sexuality and even doubted it at first. I like to introduce you to me the editor. Yep plot twist , you see ever since I was little I knew had gay tendencies but always ignored them. It took me a while to finally see myself and look in the mirror to finally embrace myself.
My story starts with the most tragic day of my life. My father had just come home from serving fourteen years in prison. He was caught when I was just conceived in my mother’s 17 year old womb. For four years we lived with my grandparents until my mother moved on and found someone new. At the tender age of four years old my mom comes up to me and said i'm going to have a little sister. I was so excited until she pulled the were moving card! I was devastated.
As I proceed throughout my elementary and middle school years I start to notice something. Now i'm a very observant person I like to look at my surroundings and look at the beauty of the world. I start to notice that i'm admiring not just women but men as well. I always shrugged it off and denied what that really was.
Let's speed up in time and go to the ninth grade. Now the ninth grade year is all about the transition part in everybody's young life. For me I had a war in my mind , and in that mental state the transition is hard. My father had finally came home and I was so happy. I would have never thought that we would have so much built up animosity towards each other. Which would eventually turn into a heated argument which would cause us to separate from each other for awhile.
I spent a lot of time up in my room contemplating where my life was going. Which spiralled me into a depression that I eventually overcame through music. “Singing” getting the thoughts and feels out was so comforting. I like to say Beyonce, and Nicki MInaj saved my life. They gave me strength and the music filled through me. To this day i can tell you all the lyrics to every song of Beyonce”s self titled album.
Many people in the past has asked me whether or not I favor one over the other?To them i reply no , wherever and whoever my crazy life leads me to I’ll be happy. Another question I get is whether i could be with more the one person in a relationship? No I like to be someone’s one and only. The most frequent question I get though isn’t being Bi-Sexual just a denial method for someone who is just gay? That statement is 100% false I find both genders equally attractive and wouldn’t mind living the rest of my life with a female or male.. I might not be different from any of you. Whether it be Transgendered, Gay , Lesbian , Bi-sexual, queer, or questioning.
To me Bi-sexuality is a part of who you are which is embed at birth. You can not change and deny yourself or it could spiral you into a depression. If you're out there reading this and are considering coming out do it. I came out to my father first when we patched things up. It went surprisingly well. Our relationship is better and I would never want to be without my dad for another period of time. My mother on the other hand gave me a different reaction, She specifically said “ Oh I knew for a long time” , Mother knows best!
Coming out to your parents is the hardest thing to do. I would not suggest coming out to them first. tell your friends and build a support group just in case things go bad. Coming out is the most liberating thing You can do In your life. Yet coming out could have a negative outcome. Just remember if the “friends” that make fun of you or degrade you are not friends. Stay strong and coming out takes time. If your gut is telling you not to then don’t do it. Remember this is your life whenever you're comfortable is the right time
My story starts with the most tragic day of my life. My father had just come home from serving fourteen years in prison. He was caught when I was just conceived in my mother’s 17 year old womb. For four years we lived with my grandparents until my mother moved on and found someone new. At the tender age of four years old my mom comes up to me and said i'm going to have a little sister. I was so excited until she pulled the were moving card! I was devastated.
As I proceed throughout my elementary and middle school years I start to notice something. Now i'm a very observant person I like to look at my surroundings and look at the beauty of the world. I start to notice that i'm admiring not just women but men as well. I always shrugged it off and denied what that really was.
Let's speed up in time and go to the ninth grade. Now the ninth grade year is all about the transition part in everybody's young life. For me I had a war in my mind , and in that mental state the transition is hard. My father had finally came home and I was so happy. I would have never thought that we would have so much built up animosity towards each other. Which would eventually turn into a heated argument which would cause us to separate from each other for awhile.
I spent a lot of time up in my room contemplating where my life was going. Which spiralled me into a depression that I eventually overcame through music. “Singing” getting the thoughts and feels out was so comforting. I like to say Beyonce, and Nicki MInaj saved my life. They gave me strength and the music filled through me. To this day i can tell you all the lyrics to every song of Beyonce”s self titled album.
Many people in the past has asked me whether or not I favor one over the other?To them i reply no , wherever and whoever my crazy life leads me to I’ll be happy. Another question I get is whether i could be with more the one person in a relationship? No I like to be someone’s one and only. The most frequent question I get though isn’t being Bi-Sexual just a denial method for someone who is just gay? That statement is 100% false I find both genders equally attractive and wouldn’t mind living the rest of my life with a female or male.. I might not be different from any of you. Whether it be Transgendered, Gay , Lesbian , Bi-sexual, queer, or questioning.
To me Bi-sexuality is a part of who you are which is embed at birth. You can not change and deny yourself or it could spiral you into a depression. If you're out there reading this and are considering coming out do it. I came out to my father first when we patched things up. It went surprisingly well. Our relationship is better and I would never want to be without my dad for another period of time. My mother on the other hand gave me a different reaction, She specifically said “ Oh I knew for a long time” , Mother knows best!
Coming out to your parents is the hardest thing to do. I would not suggest coming out to them first. tell your friends and build a support group just in case things go bad. Coming out is the most liberating thing You can do In your life. Yet coming out could have a negative outcome. Just remember if the “friends” that make fun of you or degrade you are not friends. Stay strong and coming out takes time. If your gut is telling you not to then don’t do it. Remember this is your life whenever you're comfortable is the right time
Your not alone (BI-sexuality)
A link on the brief history on BI-sexuality
http://www.bustle.com/articles/40282-a-brief-history-of-bisexuality-from-ancient-greece-and-the-kinsey-scale-to-lindsay-lohan
A link to at least 30 Celebrities who are BI-sexuality
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/10/19/30-bisexual-celebrities_n_4023562.html
http://www.bustle.com/articles/40282-a-brief-history-of-bisexuality-from-ancient-greece-and-the-kinsey-scale-to-lindsay-lohan
A link to at least 30 Celebrities who are BI-sexuality
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/10/19/30-bisexual-celebrities_n_4023562.html
My Answers
Just choose one? Well I would if i could .Like AJ said I would feel like I would be losing a part of myself and not be true to person I am
Its just a phase? Well this must be a really long phase.
You're Gay but won't admit it ! Well no i like to refer myself to half straight and Half gay.
Bi-sexual people are liars! I like to live an honest life if you want my opinion and really want to know how it is i'll tell you.
Just choose one? Well I would if i could .Like AJ said I would feel like I would be losing a part of myself and not be true to person I am
Its just a phase? Well this must be a really long phase.
You're Gay but won't admit it ! Well no i like to refer myself to half straight and Half gay.
Bi-sexual people are liars! I like to live an honest life if you want my opinion and really want to know how it is i'll tell you.